I'm going to a softball tournament but my stomach started aching so I told my mom then when I finished using the restroom when I wiped spots of blood showed up what does that mean

Okay so this sounds a lot like your period might be starting, which is super exciting (and maybe a little, like, whoa at the same time, because softball!). Little spots of blood when you wipe, especially with stomach aches, are classic first period signs. It's totally normal for it to start small and then get a little heavier.

What it means

Those tummy aches you mentioned are probably cramps, which happen because your uterus is getting ready to shed its lining. And the blood is literally your period arriving. It's your body's way of saying it's growing up and getting ready for big things. Don't worry, it's not going to ruin your softball tournament. You can totally still play!

What to do about it

First, tell your mom what happened, which you already did, good job! She can help you get the right period products. For softball, a thin pad is probably best so you feel secure and comfortable while running around. And if your stomach is still aching, things like ibuprofen (ask your mom first!) or a heating pad can help. Don't forget to pack extra supplies in your bag, just in case, and maybe some clean undies.

Lots of girls feel a little nervous or surprised by their first period. It's a whole new thing to learn about, but it's really not a big deal once you get used to it. The Soso app can help you track your cycle, so you'll know when to expect your period next time, and it has lots of explainers about everything going on with your body.